Bullying Ways – What We Suppress Persists

Bullying Ways – What We Suppress Persists

Growing up I remember being told to stay away from the cookie drawer. That request only caused me to want those cookies even more. Now having studied the systemic work of family constellations, I can see one of the core principles at work – what we exclude may expand...
Bullying Ways – The Mirror in Name Calling

Bullying Ways – The Mirror in Name Calling

Recently, I saw a post with pictures of mirrors and a reference to the “shadow”. Since that is one of the core transformation approaches I studied and share with clients, I started looking around to see where it was clearly reflected in daily life. I quickly noticed...
Sense of Self-Value – Are You Mean?

Sense of Self-Value – Are You Mean?

Bullying takes many forms. One common aspect of bullying that I experienced was name calling. Using a different variation of my name, a group of individuals would chant – mirror, mirror on the wall who is the ugliest of them all. What they were saying felt mean. In...