by Mindy Schrager | Oct 31, 2022 | Mindy's Blog |
I was reading an article about someone who experienced a tragedy when they were young. When I read the lines…one person told them to “just get over it”, I was reminded of another time I heard those same words. It was a comment by an individual in politics who said –...
by Mindy Schrager | May 31, 2022 | Mindy's Blog |
Growing up I remember being told to stay away from the cookie drawer. That request only caused me to want those cookies even more. Now having studied the systemic work of family constellations, I can see one of the core principles at work – what we exclude may expand...
by Mindy Schrager | May 15, 2022 | Mindy's Blog |
Recently, I saw a post with pictures of mirrors and a reference to the “shadow”. Since that is one of the core transformation approaches I studied and share with clients, I started looking around to see where it was clearly reflected in daily life. I quickly noticed...
by Mindy Schrager | Nov 30, 2021 | Mindy's Blog |
Bullying takes many forms. One common aspect of bullying that I experienced was name calling. Using a different variation of my name, a group of individuals would chant – mirror, mirror on the wall who is the ugliest of them all. What they were saying felt mean. In...
by Mindy Schrager | Nov 15, 2021 | Mindy's Blog |
A few months ago, I participated in several events connected to high-value clients and high-value programs. While I understand the rationale behind the concept, I found myself triggered by the term “high value” especially when used in reference to a group of people. I...